Having already lived through this process once so far, the online
issues associated with a death are problematic and not as easily
answered as the responses so far assume.
To remove access to the
online world of a deceased person extends the process and difficulties
associated with advising the right people of the death in an
appropriate manner.
For example. If an ISP account is held by a
deceased, my experience has been that it is immediately cut off,
leaving the bereaved with no way of identifying webmail contacts which
would enable them to be contacted from another account and informed of
the death in an appropriate way. This results in enquiries being made
and received from other sources and a less than ideal notification of
death process taking place.
If a telephone account and ISP account are
integrated, then unless specifically requested it is possible both the
telephone and the on-line account could be terminated at the deceaseds
home address. (My experience was that advice to an ISP of a death
including a request for the telephone to remain active, resulted in the
immediate closure of broadband access, but the telephone did remain
active. Subsequently a request was made by the ISP for a death
certificate so they could close the account completely. In retrospect
the closure of the broadband account was premature, something
highlighted by the subsequently required death certificate to
officially close the account.
During the mourning process and whilst
the affairs of the deceased are being finalised, on-line access to the
support services would be a boon. Also not being able to gain access to
information confirming those active processes a deceased was engaged in
prior to the time of their death means that they cannot be closed down
in a considered or considerate way, but are rather suddenly ended in a
cold organisational way.
Not having dealt with a social networking
site access, I am only able to speculate along similar lines, but do
make the following observation; A prime concern of the bereaved in
those circumstances is to assure the considered notification of a
deceased’s friends and contacts, in a way that avoids using the
deceased's on-line identity or e-mail. There could be potential for a
grieving person to unthinkingly utilise the identity (or e-mail) of a
deceased person to inform others of the death, so it would seem
supportive if a read only access were provided to the representative of
the deceased in circumstances of a notified death until that
representative notified that all notifications had been concluded and
the account could be permanently close.
In my opinion if something
similar to that is not provided, on-line service providers are likely
to not receive any notification of a death, as representatives will
avoid doing so in order to avoid the difficulties caused by having the
on-line world of the deceased cut off before the appropriate
notifications have been made and actions taken. Indeed that is one
possible answer in these stressful times and one I would probably now
recommend. Do not notify on-line service providers of a death until
you are entirely sure all the necessary notifications have taken place.
I suspect some people may even already follow this route as a means of
deleting all information and then closing any accounts in a structured
way which reflects the wishes of the deceased and their family.
Generically this process could be linked to a sadly interesting example
of the premature notification of a death occurring in the UK recently
where a murder victims family, who lived in another country, found out
about their childs death from the social media. A breach of social
privacy and processes which in my observation and opinion will have
caused sufficient shock to them to leave an immeasurable amount of
distress within that family. Imagine in those circumstances then,
social media or ISP’s also immediately closing the deceaseds on-line
accounts before the family have time to coherently gather their
thoughts in order to grieve never mind begin to deal with matters. I
cannot even begin to appreciate the additional suffering for a family
in those circumstances if the media accessing the deceased’s social
accounts also begin publishing material from them before a family are
aware never mind having fully grasped the facts of a death. That I
suppose should be covered within media guidelines and ethical codes but
recent history shows the value of those; However such issues could well
be used to support the immediate and complete closure as a means of
avoiding the embarrassment of society at the expense of a few families
and family members.
Clearly a difficult and complex area, one which I
think behoves considered and considerate thoughts and supportive social
processes built into any answer rather than ones coldly calculated to
reach a determined socially convenient outcome.
Ian W
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Sent: 31 January 2012 08:51
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Subject: [data-protection] The Balance Between Online Privacy and
Mourning
Several states across the US are considering legislation that
would give personal representatives legal possession of Facebook
profiles, Twitter accounts and other online information after a death.
http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-16801154
Interesting...
What about
the UK. Should we/do we have any similar laws? Discuss.
Regards
Ibrahim Hasan
Solicitor and Director
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