medieval-religion: Scholarly discussions of medieval religion and culture Sounds suspect to me. at what date (and where in 'Germany') is he referring to? In 12th - 13th c. Iceland, the bride and groom had to be observed to get into the same bed together, after which people presumably retired. On one occasion the bride jumped out of bed when the groom got in . . . presumably that marriage was invalid, as well as not being consumated (which would also have made it invalid in the eyes of the church, as has I think been pointed out). Meg ________________________________ From: medieval-religion - Scholarly discussions of medieval religious culture [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of Steve Higham Sent: Wednesday, August 26, 2009 2:18 PM To: [log in to unmask] Subject: [M-R] The Crowded Bedroom medieval-religion: Scholarly discussions of medieval religion and culture Hello In his book on The Civilising Process (1994), Elias remarks that on their wedding night the medieval bride would be undressed by her maids and mounted "in the presence of witnesses if the marriage was to be valid" (1994:146). He was referring to Germany and it is not clear which class of medieval bride he is referring to. Was this common and does this crowded bedroom not undermine the role of the Church - or did the Church give its blessing? Many thanks Steve ********************************************************************** To join the list, send the message: join medieval-religion YOUR NAME to: [log in to unmask] To send a message to the list, address it to: [log in to unmask] To leave the list, send the message: leave medieval-religion to: [log in to unmask] In order to report problems or to contact the list's owners, write to: [log in to unmask] For further information, visit our web site: http://www.jiscmail.ac.uk/lists/medieval-religion.html ********************************************************************** To join the list, send the message: join medieval-religion YOUR NAME to: [log in to unmask] To send a message to the list, address it to: [log in to unmask] To leave the list, send the message: leave medieval-religion to: [log in to unmask] In order to report problems or to contact the list's owners, write to: [log in to unmask] For further information, visit our web site: http://www.jiscmail.ac.uk/lists/medieval-religion.html