Dear Childbirth Educator,
May I just support and add to the wise words of the midwife and the
psychologist, from the viewpoint of a childbearing woman. It is widely
known that positive encouragement and models are effective, rather than
negative/aversive techniques. In my personal (4 'normal' births, each
quite different) and research experience (interviewing many women over
years) what helps is good (not emoptionally loaded!)information,
support from a midwife who is oriented to the woman's needs and from
family/friends or partner, a calm, hopefully familiar environment,
appropriate ways of coping with pain, personal confidence, openness and
lack of fear. To frighten women as a form of encouragement to 'natural'
birth seems appalling. In any case, the meaning of 'traumatic' deserves
more careful consideration. Do you mean medically complicated? with
obstetric interventions? psychologically traumatic? There is a body of
research which suggests that the woman's sense of personal control is a
key to not being psychologically traumatised, and that even though one
might hope and wish for a natural birth, there are ways of handling
interventions which are supportive for the woman. Some women will need
interventions and this shouldn't be cast in the role of failure. Again,
my experience suggests that women accept and deal with such experiences
well if they feel the interventions were appropriate, they were
properly informed, able to participate in decisions and given good
moral support. I understand the use of the term 'natural childbirth educator'
as expressing the aim of support normal physiological processes in
childbirth but I would also suggest that you consider carefully the
concept of naturalness itself - birth always takes place within a
cultural and social framework and is a social as well as physiological
act. As previous correspondents suggest, why not just stick to
positive support.
Chris McCourt
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