I read an interesting (IMO) article "The who, what, and how's of disabled persons' sexuality", by Linda R. Mona. <http://sexuality.miningco.com/library/weekly/aa091597.htm>, that addresses several issues that I have experienced as a para. Cheers! -- Han Tacoma [log in to unmask] ~ Artificial Intelligence is better than none! ~ %%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%