Thanks Max -reminds me my granny and her knick knacks glazed -locked treasure cupboard P cold here in London -----Original Message----- From: Poetryetc: poetry and poetics [mailto:[log in to unmask]] On Behalf Of Max Richards Sent: 12 June 2013 10:20 To: [log in to unmask] Subject: 'Dainty' Dainty Never in her long life did my late mother have money to spare. 'Self-indulgences' were for other people, and not respected. Folk admired her 'dainty figure' - she ate so little. When sixty, widowed, travelling at last, her selective eye desired small things, lightweight - 'not cheap', but 'inexpensive'. A small white mug says 'Killarney', a green angler swinging his rod to cast his line, with maybe a salmon taking the fly. In Auckland, it stood for where her father had migrated from, her Irish talisman - now my souvenir of her, pushed neglected behind our useful mugs. Tiny teaspoons with tiny blazons declare Hawaii, Acapulco, Panama - places beyond my ken. For her, all 'dainty', they'd fetch up at child-eye level in her china cabinet. The unlocked door, grasped by her first grand-daughter, swung forward heavily, everything crashed forwards. Dainty teapots lost their dainty spouts. Pewter and silver - they were OK. The spoons survived to come my way. Glancing at them I feel clumsy, overfed, all thumbs. Should she be with me now in Seoul, Korea, amongst these women of delicate beauty, how she'd rejoice whispering 'dainty, dainty'. I'm saying it for her.