The best display of saddness/loss/upset was that film with Ben Kingsly playing an exiled Iranian General in the US. I forget the name, but he had just lost his son. I certainly didnt feel any pleasure in it though, i just thought "blimey ben, do you have to be such a brilliant actor"?Maybe a bit of a 4th wall breaking? i dont know.
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