Roadside Memorials These days, no matter where you drive, round town or in the country, it isnıt long before your eye gets drawn to the side of the road one of those wreaths, tied maybe to a pole, or an improvised cross, signifying Here, right here our friend (or family member) diedı. Sometimes grouped together, two bedraggled wreaths or three or four more than one death maybe? or just the numerous bereaved. A hand-written message you canıt quite read covers some piece of card saying this sort of thing, no doubt: You were our Mate, Buddy, why why why did you have to Die? Always in our Hearts, Buddyı. Other times, re-passing, your eyes widen tinselly, gaudy, soon tattered...theyıve been renewed! Someoneıs come back time and again, loyally brightening the shrine. When will they give up and move onı? Graves can expect an annual visit, these maybe weekly or monthly. Itıs as though the grieving ones believe the souls of the dead stay hovering here before finding their way elsewhere, to...Heavenı? some after-life they stubbornly nurture continued belief in, or rediscover when they need it. One such shrine sported a range of food and drink containers, as if to sustain the lost one in his former nosh and tipple. One more for the road? The liquor may have caused the crash the road to my eye carried no danger. He failed again, Saint Christopher, patron of pious travellers, overworked as he always is, he failed again to protect them. Rounding a curve late at night on a wet road as your car swerves, you may think, as you donıt quite skid: There but for the grace of Saint Kit... And there comes rapidly to mind one or other sober friend who vanished from circulation for months, not quite killed, indeed just less a write-off than his car, which left the road in a wink of his poor tired eyes, and damn near broke every limb and his back. Heıll work again and drive again, but Lord, the expense to his pocket and spirit. Well, heıs moving on. He hasnıt become a statistic, and his partner and children have earned all their brownie points by his hospital bed rather than tying pathetic flowers to sticks. Meanwhile, itıs another average day, the high-pitched ambulances are nosing through heavy traffic to the latest pile-up, not far away from the previous ones. Wednesday 12 September 2007 Max Richards Doncaster, Victoria