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I had a dominatrix as a patient briefly years ago. She confirmed what the literature would have led me to suspect, that her clients either only had orgasms by means of S&M or had much more powerful ones with its help. For most of us role playing is sometimes tittilating (sp?) but not absolutely necessary, but I think it's a matter of degree. Mark At 05:11 PM 8/17/2007, you wrote: >Quite, Roger - my sentiments entirely. There's a weird mix of libido >& destrudo going on there, a compulsion deeper than > >"feeling superior". >mj > > >Roger Day wrote: > >>I dunno. I'd'a thought getting your kicks from being an inflictee or >>an inflictor on a regular basis requires a deeper motive than those >>listed below, a very deep impulse not known on the pages of 'Hello' >>magazine. >> >>Roger >> >>On 8/17/07, Dominic Fox <[log in to unmask]> wrote: >> >> >>>Roger Day wrote: >>> >>> >>>>I thought the point of S&M was for the participants to gain some sort >>>>of pleasure >>>> >>>Sure. The pleasure of feeling superior (naughty, dangerous, exciting, >>>different, adventurous, radical, sophisticated, etc.) would be among the >>>pleasures on offer... >>> >>>Dominic >>> >>> >> >> >> > >-- >Ne'er fash your thumb what gods decree >To be the weird of you or me. > >Robert Fergusson