Hi all I have read and enjoyed the postings since I last 'spoke'. However I have quite a serious drama being played out in my wider family, and being 'surrogate Mum' to my siblings now my parents have passed on, I have a strong need to support them at this time, so I'm not in a good space to reflect and spend time on composing replies to the wonderful points being made by Susie, Sarah, Mohsen and others. Apologies people, but do keep your conversation going. I think you/we are weaving something very significant in this group and look forward to the time when we can jointly contribute it to wider contexts. In peace Pip