It is not just Irish or Welsh. My girlfriend never learned Polish (her parents spoke/speak it) because if she'd learned Polish it would mark her as a "DP." I don't think my father knew Yiddish but my mother spoke it, as did her sisters. It was spoken at a distance and never explained to me. Nobody wanted me marked as a Jew and/or a "greenhorn." The words I managed to learn were filthy and the product of the street. So there went our heritages, Marie's and mine, into the common European Shame Pool aka The Memory Hole aka Assimilation. I feel cheated. Ken ----------------------------- Ken Wolman Miercom www.mier.com 609-490-0200, ext. *8-14 > -----Original Message----- > > Not unlike the Welsh poet Gillian Clark, whose mother insisted her > children > spoke only English because that was what the cultured and educated spoke.