So in the shared world dialectic become essential and seeking what Parker referred to as "Realistic Mutually Beneficial Outcomes" become a higher priority than any competition for primacy. That way we avoid collisions. Jan Jan Coker C3-10 Underdale University of South Australia +61 8 8302 6919 fax +61 8 8302 6239 Relativity teaches us the connection between the different descriptions of one and the same reality Albert Einstein Klaus said: all of them are correct, each in their world. but if they want to live together, they need to check out how far they can go with theirs without running into objections Jan said: And the big but is in one mode you are correct, but in another A can be and at the same time not be B. Which is more correct the pimp's description, the clients description, or the prostitute's description?