Wed Feb 23 12:23:24 WST 2005 Inspired by a couple of things I just read. Previously unrelated, but now connected by the threads of my mind. My poems are getting heavier by the minute! Like each other --------------- "We like each other." Theorise about complementary personalities shared missions commitment sex - but those words are where it's at. This father and mother who have been partners for so many years like each other. Yet flowers, love songs, dedications. "A love called maintenance"? TV-documentary theory: that feeling - you know the one - lasts three to seven years. If that's so, then to keep it going, you have to fall in love with each other again. But maybe not. Maybe you just have to like each other. But what to do with the stale socks, farts and forgotten dates? The tired eyes, tampon boxes and tantrums? And what to do with the desire to be lost, to disconnect, to fade into a grove of trees somewhere or into Greenwich Village or Temple Bar or Fremantle? They must have let each other go. Somehow. How long did they have to stay away before they wanted to go back? --------------------------------------- Janet Jackson <[log in to unmask]> www.arach.net.au/~huxtable/janet ---------------------------------------