Hello everyone.
I've just returned to my pc and perused the postings regarding Nick's departure.
One way or another it seems some 'group process time' emerged after Nick left. What I've picked up is the way some of us feel that top heavy- lightweight exchanges (!?)can potentially put some people off, either because they feel excluded or are disinterested in the non-content (or perceived lack of substance) of the exchanges.
The proposed solutions to this seem to be that we introduce ourselves when we come on the scene and try to contribute frequently meanwhile responding to personalised postings 'backchannel',-thus respecting the overall aim of this e group without becoming too rigid thereby losing our spontaneity and the space to let off steam.
 
This is my spontaneous contribution. And if there's anyone on the list out there who feels daunted by the perceived 'clubiness' I'm encouraging you not to hold back for as long as I have.
 
A question: how can we respond backchannel if an individuals email address doesn't appear on the posting?
 
Helen
 
 
 
From: [log in to unmask] href="mailto:[log in to unmask]">G.F. Phillips
To: [log in to unmask] href="mailto:[log in to unmask]">[log in to unmask]
Sent: Thursday, April 10, 2003 5:07 PM
Subject: Nick Totton

Hello Folks
Just to let you know that I have taken it off my own bat to write to Nick saying that there were numerous responses asking him not to leave.   I added that his would be a valuable voice in any future discussions about Psych-Couns and essentially asked 'Will you come back'
 
I've told Nick that I would let everyone know of my post to him.
Kindest
Gerald