Somehow I'm reminded of the nightly squabbles between my progeny, Josh (14) and Zoe (12). These usually end up with someone hitting someone else with the remote control, which is now only held together with sticky tape. So I'll wave my finger weakly now, before the remote gets into action, and say, Now children, be nice, and loftily ignore any rude drawings, insults or sly innuendos ... Best Alison >Patrick Herron said, > >>Be unambiguous but gentle. > >But Pat. I *am* being unambiguous but gentle! People are calling >me a dick and a puppie, and I'm still being funny and nice... > >Kent -- "The only real revolt is the revolt against war." Albert Camus Alison Croggon Home page http://www.users.bigpond.com/acroggon/ Masthead Online http://au.geocities.com/masthead_2/