Anne I found that you have written with insight, thought and sensitivity. Kindest Gerald -----Original Message----- From: anne burdess <[log in to unmask]> To: [log in to unmask] <[log in to unmask]> Date: 07 May 2000 17:02 Subject: Penis envy. >Hi. >I have tried to keep out of this debate but it is too hard not to respond, >so for those of you who wish to move on please accept my apologies and >indulge me this one response. I am a fairly new list member (and quite a shy >one!) who until now has enjoyed the various debates/discussions but found it >hard to join in. >I find it rather sad that something so little can occupy so many minds for >such a long time. It has been my misfortune to have been on the receiving >end of abuse by this male appendage for many years of my life and as a >result have lived with the damage and the consequences, so I have never >experienced this "envy" that is so often talked about - only fear. Yet I >have friends who have experienced great pleasure from it and whilst not >exactly envying their male partners, appreciate the compatibility it can >bring with them. Like everything else, in the 'right hands', so to speak and >used for what nature and God intended, it is a source of great joy and love >and continued life. In the 'wrong hands', it is a weapon which can produce >fear and destroy. I hope I haven't said too much. >Thank you for your forbearance. >Annie. > >________________________________________________________________________ >Get Your Private, Free E-mail from MSN Hotmail at http://www.hotmail.com > %%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%%