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On Mon, 18 Sep 2000, Sheenagh Pugh wrote...

>I thought it was self-evident that the best thing
>any woman could be was 18 ---

Sheenagh,

'Twas me who claimed it was sexist. And I think you rather prove my
point when you add...

>or any man, come to
>that.

...since this isn't what the Gentleman says. I didn't think it was, in
itself, likely to be offensively sexist, and as Helen (I think) said, it
made a great punch-line. Nevertheless, it seems to me that it's
indicative of someone who regards women and men very differently, with
the former having a primarily decorative function. I interpreted the
Gentleman's remark as suggesting that it was for the man's benefit that
the woman was 18. I suppose it could be that he was suggesting that men
hold their truthfulness above their beauty, and women vice versa. But
that would make it worse, wouldn't it?

Best,
--
Peter

http://www.hphoward.demon.co.uk/poetry/


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