I disagree, but accept that I cannot speak from a position of expertise. The
social pressure around sex is all to do with achieving the peak (how polite)
of 'thingy into thingy', 'something into thingy', 'thingy into something',
etc.
There are many enjoyable sensations and experiences that tend to go alongside
this but the pressure is such that there is a measurement of what is
'normal/acceptable/desired' routed deeply in disabled people. For those of us
that will never achieve this there is a constant round of explaining and
negotiating around what can and can't be done which affects the nature of the
relationship from the start.
The abitlity to facilitate another to reach the peak is a wonderfull thing
but more to do with 'love' than sex and is still only half the story
Paul Curry
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