I love this piece from the IHT on the poetry of loneliness from the Japanese 
salaryman...

I went to a conference on gender and space in (I think) 2001 in Queen's in 
Belfast, in which at one point in a seminar someone raised the (then-new) 
idea of crises of masculinity - the mention caused a polite titter to run 
round the room from an audience which I think was predominantly made up of 
queer theorists and gender specialists of various stripes. The topic seemed 
to be treated as a bit of a joke, because after that mention it disappeared 
and we got on with the more serious business of 'serious' gender and 
sexuality.

I'm ignorant of this area of work but after coming into contact with a group 
of men in Nicaragua campaigning against domestic violence (some of whom at 
least had been offenders in this respect against their own partners) it 
occurred to me that there's a vast, interlinked complex of phenomena 
associated with said crises, from ritualized and institutionalized 'honour' 
killings in India and Pakistan, say, through the the rises in crimes of 
violence in the UK within an (allegedly) overall decline in the rate of 
crime here, plus for instance the gradual rise in suicide amongst men in the 
16-24 year-old age group to the point where it's become (again, from memory) 
the number one killer in that age group.

Can anyone clue me in on good literature on this idea of masculine crises?


Meanwhile, a sad and gentle article:


Meanwhile: The only warmth in my life is the heated toilet seat

Kumiko Makihara

IHT 26/3/07

TOKYO: Pity the lonely Japanese salaryman, or white-collar worker, who wrote 
that ode to his electrically warmed commode. The poem was an entry to this 
year's annual Salaryman Senryu Contest (senryu is a form of Japanese short 
poetry).

I had thought the stereotypical salaryman, often mocked as a corporate 
drone, was a thing of the past. Many fathers at my son's primary school, 
after all, show up at dawn on field day to grab prime viewing spots, 
displaying what seems like a healthy devotion to family life. But the 
following senryu suggests those dads may have simply extended their 
corporate servitude to the household.

"Dad, please, a ride, save a seat, be in charge of the camera, and take out 
the trash"

The insurance firm Dai-ichi Life runs the contest and recently selected 100 
finalists from this year's 23,179 submissions. The public is currently 
invited to vote via the company's Web site (www.dai-ichi-life.co.jp), and 
the 10 most popular senryu will be announced in May. The contest is now in 
its 20th year, and the winners' words have come to be regarded as indicators 
of the times.

Office politics and family life - or the lack of it - have been mainstay 
themes over the years, according to Dai-ichi Life, while dieting and 
high-tech ineptitude are recent topics. This year's submissions show many 
aging salarymen finding themselves misfits in their own firms amid increased 
competition, while years of corporate devotion have left them isolated from 
their families and communities.

"Kicked upstairs at the office From there I regale my subordinates with 
tales of heroic episodes."

You can bet this next poet probably can't deal with the latest cell phone 
technology:

"Got it But the features have already been upgraded to the next generation"

The salaryman's waistline is expanding, too.

"I've stashed away quite a bit Not money but body fat"

Another reflects upon Japan's growing concern with disparity of wealth by 
ranking his family members in descending order of power.

"My wife, the children, me Inequality of the classes in my own home"

Chilly marital relations loom strong in this year's entries as Japan sees 
the start of the mass retirement of its postwar baby boomers.

Troops of corporate warriors will now replace their hours at the office with 
time at home. In the following poem, the author has the wife barking out 
orders to make dinner and tea and to draw a bath, well known here as the few 
words spoken at home by a chauvinistic Japanese male.

"After retirement "dinner, bath, tea." That's my wife talking"

In a more severe but realistic scenario, many men fear the consequences of a 
new law taking effect this year that gives spouses the right to a share of 
each other's pension payments upon divorce.

"My wife is waiting!! until she can grab half of my pension"

Can the personal lives of salarymen be so empty? Part of the self-effacing 
humor is cultural behavior that masks displays of affection that would be 
considered an embarrassment in public. But the lack of a life outside of 
work is also a serious consequence of the extreme corporate loyalty that 
stems from Japan's lifetime employment system.

While the practice of staying at the same company is gradually crumbling, 
most businessmen facing retirement in the next few years have come up 
through such ranks.

Koichi Hasegawa, a 50-year-old manager at a Japanese bank, describes being a 
lifer as "working in a sort of atmosphere of intimidation."

"Someone is always watching you," he says. "It would be out of the question 
to decline a conference call because it's your kid's birthday or because 
you're going to the theater with your wife."

When I worked at an American private-equity fund, I remember executives 
speaking of such plans gleefully as if boasting that they ran a successful 
family in addition to the fund. In Japan such a stance would elicit shock 
and laughter because of the monumental taboos one would be breaking by 
putting business second and bringing private issues into the office.

It's no wonder then, that at the end of the day, after 30-odd years of 
absentee husbandry and fatherhood, the salaryman doesn't have a warm body to 
come home to. What else can he do but turn to the latest gadgetry?

"Only my navigation system says "well done" and recognizes my services"


Jon Cloke
Newcastle University