Makes sense to me Helen.
Kindest
Gerald
-----Original Message-----
From: Helen Hannick <[log in to unmask]>
To: [log in to unmask] <[log in to unmask]>
Date: 23 March 2004 06:57
Subject: re lurkers
Hello Pamela,
would that I print them off and could thus delete them on site ..no the
emails 'lurk' in my c drive waiting for action on my part.
I take on board your request that we lurkers reveal ourselves now and
again...even
with just a word or two and let others know they are not alone. I'll give
it a try.
Free associating, 'm thinking that another part of my reluctance to engage
has to do with a lack of feeling that my relationship (with the body of
the group) is somehow 'real' enough to prompt me to engage in brief/informal
'chatter'. And yet longer and more informed responses need (to me) the kind
of thinking and response time I don't have much of.
Does that make sense?
Helen
>-- Messaggio originale --
>Date: Mon, 22 Mar 2004 08:03:47 EST
>Reply-To: Discussion on theoretical and research issues in counselling
> psychology <[log in to unmask]>
>From: Pamela Harper <[log in to unmask]>
>Subject: Re: numbers
>To: [log in to unmask]
>
>
>Helen and Estelle
>
>So I'm here but not here..and yet I can't bear the thought of closing
>my connection with you all in this group.
>Surely this displays severe attachment difficulties...something I need
to
>
>take to therapy?
>
>
>
>The answer to your problem Helen is simple you detach yourself from your
>
>e-mails simply bt printing them off, hanging them in the bathroom and
slowly
>
>pondering them while sitting on the throne therein. Any you then wish to
>
>permanently discard you are in a convenient place to do it and so
environmentally
>
>friendly.
>
>As Estelle I'm confessing to being another lurker.
>
>It is nice to know at least you lurkers out there are taking an interest
>in
>what is going on but the more view points we have on a subject the more
>informed we all become. Sometimes a short comment is all that's needed
whilst
>holding
>your coffee/tea/water in the other hand you cantap the keyboard with the
>
>other. There are times when we regular lurkers get weary and would welcome
>a rest
>now and again as you can see
>
>Pamela and power
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