This is not neglect this is for a law suit I am trying to settle. This live
in partner always asks me now it is my turn and he is going with me
tomorrow!
I know this sounds like a bitch but believe me people who have had to go
down there says it is nothing like the TV shows it is scary, real, stinky,
and fire belching smoke still. I think back to my childhood my grandmother
read the bible and used to spout all the fire and brimstone. I feel all that
coming up in side me. I swam today to fortify myself mentally that always
works. The partner well he will go or no more cooked meals or laundry done!
I know I sound like Leona Helmsley the Queen of Mean but this time I really
need.
Pat

----- Original Message -----
From: G.F. Phillips <[log in to unmask]>
To: <[log in to unmask]>
Sent: Sunday, November 04, 2001 10:14 AM
Subject: Re: Off Topic


> Dear Pat
> I don't envy you the experience which you will have.   I trust that all
goes
> well with you.   I'm glad that you let people come to you, but don't
neglect
> yourself.
> Take Care
> Kindest
> Gerald
> -----Original Message-----
> From: Patricia Rauch <[log in to unmask]>
> To: [log in to unmask] <[log in to unmask]>
> Date: 02 November 2001 17:39
> Subject: Re: Off Topic
>
>
> >Gerald
> >I let whoever needs help come to me. Monday I am forcing someone to take
me
> >to ground zero. My attorney isdown there I understand the stink is awful
I
> >have not seen the rubble. The only way down is via subway I only travel
by
> >bus since 9/11.
> >I feel my own panic rising and it is not even Monday so I understand all
> >these young people wanting someone to sit with them in the library or bus
> or
> >anywhere.
> >Pat
> >
> >----- Original Message -----
> >From: G.F. Phillips <[log in to unmask]>
> >To: <[log in to unmask]>
> >Sent: Friday, November 02, 2001 9:45 AM
> >Subject: Re: Off Topic
> >
> >
> >> Dear Pat
> >> I have experienced regression such as this in the residential treatment
> of
> >> emotionally damaged youngsters.  I have become mummy or daddy on very
> many
> >> occasions.   The difference is that the youngsters in treatment needed
to
> >> regress beyond the point of emotional damage and then re-grow.   I
would
> >> expect that these youngsters in America are regressing in order to be
> tiny
> >> again so that Mummy and Daddy can make sure that they are safe.   The
> best
> >> thing is just to go along with it without comment.   Of course we all
> have
> >> not yet quite grown up babies within ourselves, perhaps the lady who
> >> accompanied you on your journey was in fact holding on to Mummy.   My
> >> impression of you has always been that you are very hard working and
have
> >> experienced much of life, along with that I sense quite a maternal
> >element.
> >> Others will, of course, pick up on that.
> >> Kindest
> >> Gerald
> >> -----Original Message-----
> >> From: Patricia Rauch <[log in to unmask]>
> >> To: [log in to unmask] <[log in to unmask]>
> >> Date: 28 October 2001 20:15
> >> Subject: Re: Off Topic
> >>
> >>
> >> >Hi all
> >> >I just got finished watching on TV the memorial service at the WTC
site.
> >> >What I found what truly brought me to tears was a young boy mouthing
> >where
> >> >is mommy to his dad.
> >> >There is something I want to throw out but here in NY besides the
> Anthrax
> >> >there is a real plague with the young people I would say age 10 -
under
> >25.
> >> >They latch on to adults like myself parents have been reporting to me
> >even
> >> >faculty that their children either creep into their rooms at night and
> >> sleep
> >> >on the floor next to their beds or outside the door.
> >> >At the library at school young people bring their throws and a pillow
> and
> >> >sleep all over the library. The other day I was boarding a bus at a
> >nearby
> >> >high school one of the most elite hight schools in NYC a young lady
> about
> >> 14
> >> >was holding the tape Shakespeare In Love. I asked her if she liked it.
> >Well
> >> >that's all it took she latched on to me all the way to the end of my
> >stop.
> >> >She even asked if this woman who sat down next to me could move so she
> >> could
> >> >sit next to me.
> >> >My own therapist says the young people he sees don't say a thing but
his
> >> >three he finds camped out side his bed room door.
> >> >Any input to understand this. I would never question them just stay
> close
> >> as
> >> >long as I can because I don't know what to say they just want to be
near
> >> >someone.
> >> >Pat
> >> >----- Original Message -----
> >> >From: Amanda Poyner <[log in to unmask]>
> >> >To: <[log in to unmask]>
> >> >Sent: Sunday, October 28, 2001 1:33 PM
> >> >Subject: Re: Off Topic
> >> >
> >> >
> >> >> Sorry Paul, but when it comes to British Telecom, there is nothing
> >funny
> >> >> at all.  Humour in this case, is an unattainable luxury.  My
husband,
> >in
> >> >> his infinite wisdom, has chosen BT Anytime, which I am sure others
> will
> >> >> have an opinion on, but never mind, at least I am able to
communicate.
> >> >>
> >> >> On Sunday, October 28, 2001, at 01:30 PM, Paul Carney wrote:
> >> >>
> >> >> > Dear Amanda
> >> >> >
> >> >> > @BTINTERNET.COM> wrote: > Dear Paul and Gerald,
> >> >> >
> >> >> >>> (Note: NOT 'British')    8-)
> >> >> >>
> >> >> >> Not me then.
> >> >> >
> >> >> > Is that why you are with 'British Telecomm' then?  8-)
> >> >> >
> >> >> >
> >> >> >
> >> >> > =====
> >> >> > Best wishes
> >> >> >
> >> >> > Paul
> >> >> >
> >> >> > "All that I can do is tell the truth. No, that isn't so - I have
> >missed
> >> >> > it. There is no truth that, in passing through awareness, does not
> >lie.
> >> >> > But one runs after it all the same." (Jacques Lacan)
> >> >> >
> >> >> > ____________________________________________________________
> >> >> > Nokia Game is on again.
> >> >> > Go to http://uk.yahoo.com/nokiagame/ and join the new
> >> >> > all media adventure before November 3rd.
> >> >> >