I went to a party given by Dr. Rothman after we completed our clinical
course well she baked a chocolate cake with all kinds of chocolate frostings
and fillings. Well guys I don't care how good you are that chocolate cake
was better than orgasism. Sorry for the risque comment but from the heart I
have to agree the chocolate was better.
Pat
On Tue, 2 May 2000 22:14:04 +0100, [log in to unmask] wrote:
>
> ----- Original Message -----
> From: Helen <[log in to unmask]>
> To: G.F. Phillips <[log in to unmask]>
> Sent: Tuesday, May 02, 2000 9:34 PM
> Subject: Re: ADD & ADHD
>
>
> > Gerald
> >
> > 'All women envy the Penis' - I resent this statement for a number of
> > reasons. Firstly I wonder how many gay woman would agree with you?
Why
> > would a woman envy something that deflates in later life, lets face it
> you
> > only get 2 years use out of a penis (maximum). Also all women are
taught
> > from a very early age that all men only think with their penis, recent
> > statistics show that one in two women prefer chocolate to sex, long
live
> the
> > Cadburys flake! It does the same job but tastes a hundred times better.
> > I really do not like lowering myself to this level, however, there was
no
> > need for your statement I feel it was totally uncalled for and was
petty
> and
> > pathetic and just like an insecure man to come out with.
> >
> > Hel.
> >
> >
> > ----- Original Message -----
> > From: G.F. Phillips <[log in to unmask]>
> > To: <[log in to unmask]>
> > Sent: Tuesday, May 02, 2000 6:53 PM
> > Subject: Re: ADD & ADHD
> >
> >
> > > Dear Stephen
> > > I swore, in an earlier message I said that I would not , under any
> > > circumstances reply to anything bearing the the name ADHD. I am
however
> > > moved by your message.
> > >
> > > It is unfortunate that I should reply to you in a psychodynamic way.
> I
> > > totally support you in your statement. It feels unfortunate to me
> that
> > in
> > > this politically correct society, that we should not be allowed to
> suggest
> > > the MOTHER as being important. She is , indeed, terribly importamt
in
> > the
> > > upbringing of the infant. Without the Mother we should surely be
lost.
> I
> > > consider feminists' to be without breast and without that which could
be
> > > described as WOMANHOOD. For the Femiinists amongst you, can reply,
but
> > > before you do please listen from a Feminist Friend; 'If my foetus is
> male
> > I
> > > will kill it' After birth the BABY (BOY) was the love of her life
> and
> > is
> > > now a Consultant Physician in a a major taeching hospital, in London.
> His
> > > mother is in constant contact and tells me that the milk is still in
her
> > > breasts. SOMEONE EXPLAIN IF YOU CAN?
> > >
> > > Due to the abuse in this group, I am not in the least interested in
the
> > > political views of the feminist movement, but only from WOMEN in the
> true
> > > sense of the word.
> > >
> > > Gerald
> > >
> > >
> > > ' All Women envy the Penis'
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > >
> > > -----Original Message-----
> > > From: Rennie, Steve [HES] <[log in to unmask]>
> > > To: [log in to unmask] <[log in to unmask]>
> > > Date: 02 May 2000 11:43
> > > Subject: RE: ADD & ADHD
> > >
> > >
> > > >Helen (and others in the ADHD thread), I have been a playworker
since
> the
> > > late 1960s, mostly on adventure playgrounds in the UK. In the last
> > fifteen
> > > years my direct work with children has tended to be more specialist.
> Over
> > > the years many children have come to me with labels, increasingly of
> late
> > > ADHD. I have never yet found a child labelled in that way who was
unable
> > to
> > > relate to me constructively and attentively through their play. In a
> short
> > > series of experiments, I asked principal carers, who had expressed
major
> > > concerns about their relationships with their children, to engage
with
> > them
> > > in imaginal play. Every one reported considerable and sustained
> > improvements
> > > both in their relationships with the child and in the child's
> > relationships
> > > with others.
> > > >
> > > >My observations of children with their principal carers
(overwhelmingly
> > > their mothers) appear to indicate that most apparently anti-social
> > > behaviours exhibited by the children are best explained as
"dysplay",
> > > distorted play cues arising from increasingly desperate attempts on
the
> > part
> > > of the child to get playful interaction with the carer. A short
period
> of
> > > accurate response to play cues appears to diminish this "dysplay"
> > > dramatically and in a sustained fashion.
> > > >
> > > >The major problem I have had in gaining acceptance of this
technique,
> > would
> > > appear to be its lack of seriousness. Engaging with a child in
imaginal
> > play
> > > looks silly and adult participants often say that it feels silly at
> first.
> > > One mother of a four year old who had set fire to his nursery school
and
> > his
> > > house said that it felt she was ignoring the problem when she just
> played
> > > cars (with noises) while lying on the carpet with him. However, she
also
> > > said that the end of that session, when he spontaneously cuddled her,
> was
> > > the first time that had happened since he had been a baby.
> > > >
> > > >If I had made the option of medication for the child available to
that
> > > mother at the outset, I am sure that she would have taken it. She
would
> > have
> > > felt she was addressing a serious problem seriously.
> > > >
> > > >Stephen Rennie, Leeds Metropolitan University
> > > >[log in to unmask]
> > > >
> > >
> >
>
PSYCHOLOGY IS TO HELP NOT HINDER
Pat Rauch
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